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I can so identify with you and how you feel. I was six months pregnant when I lost my son. He would have been due around 14 Oct (Iím not looking forward to that month). But the best thing I can tell you is that I understand why you would feel bad about grieving in front of people, especially if you donít feel comfortable in front of others. But if you have to, go somewhere alone or find someone you can talk too. I finally went to work this week after a 45-day leave and on Friday I almost had a break down. I swear I wanted to do bodily harm to everyone in my office. They are all malesÖ when I came back to the office they acted like nothing happened. Like it wasnít important. So I went to my boss and he let me have the day off. Bottom line is if you keep things bottled up itís not going to do you or anyone around you any good. You have to get that out of you before you do something you might regret and especially before you try again. My fiancť and me both want to try again as soon as possible. But you have to be healthy in your emotions first because your baby can feel that. Also you have to do it for your other child; children are not stupid, they know when something is wrong. Your actions will always give it away. Donít let people rush you through your pain. One, they have no right to do so and second, itís definitely not going to do you any good in the lone run. This will be a struggle but Iím starting to see you can get through thisÖbut first you have to grieve. Itís okay and that doesnít make you weak. If others have problems with you showing youíre in pain it could be they donít know how to handle this type of stuff. Let them know your not expecting them to say some miraculous thing that will take away the pain. You just need a shoulder to lean on. I pray the best for you.

Be blessed,

~True





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