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Hello. I'm very sorry to hear of your loss and may GOD be with you in this time of need. I understand completely what you are going through. 8/20/00 5:25am, I lost my son at 22 weeks from an incompetent cervix. They were going to insert an emergency cerclage, but from being dialated, I got an infection and was septic, so keeping the baby would have been toxic for the both of us. He was only 1 lb. 1.8 oz of pure beauty. I want to be honest with you that the pain NEVER goes away, but you will be able to make it through the day without crying every time you see a pregnant woman or a baby. I have pictures and his receiving blanket and from time to time, I look at them, smell them and I love that I have something that he once touched. I had him cremated and I have his ashes in a cross that I wear faithfully, so I never go through a single day without feeling him near me. Such a short moment, he was there, but he made on impression on me, that will last a lifetime. I always find comfort in a quote that I read in the book that they give you at the hospital "May you find comfort in knowing, that your baby never experienced anything but LOVE." I hope that can give you comfort also. I pray that God helps you through this time and helps you to realize that maybe your baby was needed for bigger things. I'm sure your baby has already been fitted for wings. God bless you and your beautiful child. My heart is with you and I hope that my son was there to welcome your baby at the gates of heaven. One day at a time. . . .

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