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i can completely relate to your grief and frustration for answers. I have had 2 m/c and both were unexplained. With both, we had more than one ultrasound with heartbeats. What didn't help was people told me, once they detect a heartbeat, your chances of m/c drop considerably. So, that gave me a false sense of hope.

I agree with another poster who said that they consider it "normal" even after 2 losses. After my 2nd loss, the Dr. said that to me, but i pushed to get testing done. I didn't want to have to wait for one more m/c to start testing. They did genetic testing on me and DH; all kinds of blood work for lupus, clotting and the immune stuff (not sure what it is called). Everything came back normal. Athough I wish there was some answer, at least the testing gave me some sort of reassurance to go ahead and try again. It is painful to think of going through another m/c, i agree. But I suppose you just have to take it one day at a time and not worry about what you MIGHT have to deal with. Because when it comes down to it, we manage to deal with whatever life throws at us in the end. I hear so many stories of women who've had 3 or more m/c and then end up having 2 or more children. I have to believe that i'd be strong enough to do it. some days i do, some i don't. Hang in there. I'm glad you came here because talking about it really does help.:angel:

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