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Walking around like a zombie...when you wrote that I thought "that's totally me right now" I lost my baby at 16 weeks a little over 2 weeks ago. I can't focus on anything either.
I go from happy to sad in a split second. I think that its OK to do that, and for us to still be sad. Its just so heartbreaking, we can only take it in small doses. So take what you can when you can.
Some people just won't understand. For some reason, m/c isnt viewed in the same way as say a person whose 3 year old died. No one would say, "well, you will have another 3 year old" or "just get over it" to the parents in that situation. You have every right to grieve for as long as you need to. I came back to work too early, because I hadnt been at the company for very long, and was afraid of being fired. I wish I had stayed at home longer, too.
Just please, don't stop talking to people. If you feel you are having some kind of breakdown, tell a family member, friend, your partner, anyone! There is nothing to be ashamed of, or embarrassed about. You dont deserve to grieve alone, or in this manner for the rest of your life. The sadness will never go away, but with time and support, maybe it can be easier to live with. I will pray for us both. Take care





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