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Re: Please help
Apr 16, 2007
I know how you feel. I miscarried 3 weeks ago. I found out at 9 weeks I had a blighted ovum and miscarried a week and a half later. I had been focusing on my physical well being because it was difficult for me and I am still a little sore so I put the emotional part on the back burner and it is creeping up now.

All I can tell you is not to focus on the time whether it has been a month ago or 6 months ago you are entitled to take as long as you want to come terms with what happened. The only thing that makes me feel a bit better is that 2 doctors and all the nurses I talked to said it was not my fault and there was something chromosomoly wrong otherwise this would not have happened.

It might be good for you to read some books on miscarriage, I ordered myself one and hope it will help. I find this site and some other websites help along with talking to other women that had miscarriages.

I also found that there can be a lack of support from family as they just don't understand unless it has happened to them. I got alot of either silence or "you can always try again". My husband has taken our miscarriage extremely hard and I had to be the strong one which in itself delays my own healing too.

It is hard to come to terms with the hopes and dreams of having your little one being crushed. I keep telling myself it was just not meant to be and was out of my hands and whenever one door closes another opens. I know that there is something good down the road for me and this is true for you too.
Take care.

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