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:) Hello,

This is my first visit to this site so I have a lot to get of my chest, of should I say breast.

I have had 2 miscarriages (with curettes) before I had my little girl and 2 (one curette and one spontaneous) miscarriages after I had her. It has been very difficult for my husband and I. We have been trying for a second child for 2 years. We have tried IUI about 5 times. I got pregnant with IUI with the 3rd pregnancy but I lost it at 7 and a half weeks, and the 4th time it was a blighted ovum which we lost at around 3weeks. We are now contemplating IVF the doctors are for and against it me being 40yrs of age. I take my 2year old to playgroup and 90% of the mums now have a second child, and all I get from them is "is this your only child"? I feel like telling them to get f....d when they say that. I havn't told them what I have been through its still too painful to talk about it, and my pride wont let me. I nearly feel like giving up playgroup because it hurts me to see mums with 2 children, I just feel like its so competitve as to who can have the most. I stick it out though because I think it is importants for my little girl to play with other kids her age.We were blessed with our little girl so we should be grateful, and I did do a lot of selfish living in the last 20 years. I know time is against me but I hope not entirely. We will not give up just yet.

Has anyone out there experienced miscarriage or gone through IVF I would be interested to hear your views?

Bye for now jewell1;)





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