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Thank you for your kind words! We are not pregnant nor are we trying because it took us 3 years to get pregnant with my daughter after my m/c and we conceived her through IVF. I was pregnant with triplets but only my daughter Olivia Grace survived because her sisters were identical conjoined twins that only had one heart so they didn't make it. I was on absolute bedrest for 27 weeks, hospitalized for 2 weeks due to preterm labor starting at 27 weeks and then my little miracle was born at 34 weeks. She was absolutley perfect weighing in at only 4 lbs 7 oz and was 16 inches...a little tiny fighter!!!! No NICU or special nursery, I was so blessed. So I am just thankful to have her here and for her to be healthy, I just can't go through all that again! We may adopt some day in the future???

With my m/c I did not have to have a D&C because I finally stopped bleeding after about 1 1/2 weeks though towards the end it was just spotting. When I first started to miscarry I bled really really bad and had excruciating. I was actually out of town in Utah at a convention and had no family members with me (I live in Chicago). My work friends had to call 911 and I was taken by ambulance to the hosptial. It was a million times worse because I was alone. That flight home was just awful. It took a while for my hcg to drop to 0 so they kept taking blood tests until it dropped. I did not want to have the D&C so I was happy that I didn't have to. I would think if you could do it naturally that would be better. I know that the D&C they go in there through your cervix and pretty much scrape your uterus to get all the lining and whatever is left in there all cleaned out. I hope that your u/s on Thursday comes back good so you could just have things naturally take place.

Sorry for all the rambling about me! I will tell you...when you need to cry, cry...when you need to be pissed off, be pissed off...when you want to talk about it, you talk about it!!!!!!! Maybe you can keep a journal to help you sort through your feelings, I did that and it helped. I am here for you.
Cathy





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