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... I have 2 friends that I'm very close to. One just had a baby on Friday, and the other friend had a miscarriage, IRONICALLY, the same day. ... (13 replies)
... first of all im so sorry that your friend is going through this awful pain nobody should feel this, A miscarriage feel like the nd of the world, unfornatly your friend is going to have to feel this for awhile, its the only way to grieve and for her to move on with life. You cant force her to talk, move on etc. ... (13 replies)
... days ago, and i have to say it's somewhat lonely how a lot of close friends become scared of you, worrying they'll say the wrong thing, not wanting to push themselves on you, etc. i would've appreciated a bit more "how are you feeling? ... (13 replies)

... the wrong thing said with the best intentions is better than someone not saying anything at all like it is no big deal. tell your friend you are there for her and tell her you are there if she does or does not want to talk about it, ask her everyone is different. ... (13 replies)
... thing about "it's common" that made me feel okay was when people who had miscarriages said something along these lines, and in these cases it was kind of done in a "a lot of us go through this, here's how i can support you" kind of way. ... (13 replies)
... Hi, I talked to my friend yesterday for the first time and she said,(couldn't believe it cause you guys said not to say it)"Well, at least I know not that I could get pregnant." AND she also said, "It's very common so I'm not too concerned about it." :confused: So, I guess everyone is different, but anyhow, thanks again! :wave: (13 replies)
... The list will be more about what not to say than what to say. ... (13 replies)
... not shocking to me. ... (13 replies)
... cry with her if that's what she needs. Good luck. ... (13 replies)
... I haven't even talked to her YET, but I will be sure with no doubt to read this one more time. ... (13 replies)
... I will make sure that I DON'T say, I'm sure you could have another. No, I have never been through such a thing, so I could not sympathize with her on such a level. ... (13 replies)
... My reply to her when I talked to her was, "Yes, I do know that it's very common, and DO NOT blame yourself. ... (13 replies)
... I think the 'it's common' thing is meant more to make you feel less isolated, like you're not the only one this happens to and that frequently it doesn't mean anything serious so aside from your grief there's no need to be worried about the future. ... (13 replies)
... See, I was thinking about saying that it's really common because I've been reading about it and I was thinking of saying that, thanks, I won't. :nono: And about the one "It was God's plan", I couldn't even imagine saying that because I don't belive that, but I do know that others do. Thanks! (13 replies)
Had a miscarriage
Nov 29, 2006
... I am so sorry to hear what you have been through and are still going through. It is such a tough ride and the emotions swing all over the place. ... (3 replies)
... cheaper than what I was paying. ... (2 replies)
... Hello, everyone. I'm so very sorry for all of the women here who have suffered a miscarriage or stillbirth. We WILL see our angels again one day. I wanted to share my story, with hopes of some insight. ... (2 replies)
... The difference between a miscarriage, stillbirth and premature birth is the length of the pregnancy and condition of the baby. ... (5 replies)
... I think I am doing better but then again, I am now rheumatologist started me on Cymbalta to help with the pain I have from my fibromyalgia but also to help with my depression. ... (33 replies)
... this is my first mothers day. i had a miscarriage in december. it was awhile ago and i thought after two weeks of crying i was done being upset. ... (9 replies)

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