Absolutely petrified and don't know what to do next...

I'm probably going to come across as incredibly anxious and I am!!! My doctors seem to think that anxiety is my issue but I'm not in agreement....

I have had various issues since a Shoulder op in July.....Mostly pins and needles all over, balance issues, headaches, blurry vision, problems with walking,feeling not really myself, tight muscles etc..... I have seen doctors, acute physicians and a neuro. I could not feel vibrations in my toes on the neuro test but could feel them in my ankles and when tested on the romberg I swayed very slightly.

The neuro told me "this is not ms", seemed to think that I'd picked up some kind of virus and said I was worrying too much. She said there was no need for an MRI as this wasn't anything major and left me to it. I've now had these symptoms for nearly 3 months. I've had time off work and am now trying to work and put on a brave face as if nothing is wrong, which is proving to be incredibly tough as I just don't feel 'normal'. I have no idea what to do next. I feel like the fact that I am now worried about what is going on in my body is all the doctors are focusing on, and not the actual symptoms.

I'm crying a lot. I just don't know what else to do as I really don't feel that anyone is listening. Any help or advice would be appreciated.