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My son who is 3 has been going to a daycare for about a 1.5 years. My son has always been taken care of but then there was situation.

I picked up my son and he told me he got wet. I thought he had a accident. She said his pants got wet from the pool. SO he got wet, she took off his pants, let him swim in his undies. She told me his underwear was outside drying.He had only his shorts on.( no underwear)

When we were in the car, my son says" Mom I slept naked today" I asked him a lot of questions thinking he THOUGHT he was naked becasue he was only wearing his shorts. He said he was naked. he also said he slept with the other 3 year old girl but she had a pull up on.

I went to daycare the next day and asked her about it. She smiled and said yes. I told her that was NOT ok at all. She was all apologetic and said it would never happen again. He went the next day and she barely talked to me.

The following day I picked him and my son told me she was mowing the lawn. She looked at my son and said....don't get me in more trouble.She ensured me that he was right with her when she was mowing....UM HELLO>>>>>>>>>>even more dangerous!!

The next day I called and left her a message( because she NEVER answer her phone)I just told her we are pulling immediatly becasue we want him in a more structured envirnoment. She called me back and left me a messege saying " if this has anything to do with the sleeping thing, I really don't know what the big deal is. Well right then and there I knew I made the right choice.

SHe now wants two weeks worth of pay becasue I didn't give her a notice, I am not going to pay her squat. SHe keeps calling me and I will not return her calls. I sent her a certified letter sayding I want a copy of the contract that I signed. ( I do not remember signing anything from her) She hasn't threatened it to me either.

I am so scared she will show up at my door. Everyone keeps telling me I shoudl report her. She didn't do it to hurt anyone but she should have known better. SHe is not licensded.

Her calls are very firm and she tells me becasue I haven't payed her she is bouncing checks. Ummmm is it my prblem that you can't manage your money???

I am having some serious anxiety over this. I seriouly think I may have to call my doctor. I am already on anti depressent for depression. :(
[QUOTE=quinnersmom]Help!

My son who is 3 has been going to a daycare for about a 1.5 years. My son has always been taken care of but then there was situation.

I picked up my son and he told me he got wet. I thought he had a accident. She said his pants got wet from the pool. SO he got wet, she took off his pants, let him swim in his undies. She told me his underwear was outside drying.He had only his shorts on.( no underwear)

When we were in the car, my son says" Mom I slept naked today" I asked him a lot of questions thinking he THOUGHT he was naked becasue he was only wearing his shorts. He said he was naked. he also said he slept with the other 3 year old girl but she had a pull up on.

I went to daycare the next day and asked her about it. She smiled and said yes. I told her that was NOT ok at all. She was all apologetic and said it would never happen again. He went the next day and she barely talked to me.

The following day I picked him and my son told me she was mowing the lawn. She looked at my son and said....don't get me in more trouble.She ensured me that he was right with her when she was mowing....UM HELLO>>>>>>>>>>even more dangerous!!

The next day I called and left her a message( because she NEVER answer her phone)I just told her we are pulling immediatly becasue we want him in a more structured envirnoment. She called me back and left me a messege saying " if this has anything to do with the sleeping thing, I really don't know what the big deal is. Well right then and there I knew I made the right choice.

SHe now wants two weeks worth of pay becasue I didn't give her a notice, I am not going to pay her squat. SHe keeps calling me and I will not return her calls. I sent her a certified letter sayding I want a copy of the contract that I signed. ( I do not remember signing anything from her) She hasn't threatened it to me either.

I am so scared she will show up at my door. Everyone keeps telling me I shoudl report her. She didn't do it to hurt anyone but she should have known better. SHe is not licensded.

Her calls are very firm and she tells me becasue I haven't payed her she is bouncing checks. Ummmm is it my prblem that you can't manage your money???

I am having some serious anxiety over this. I seriouly think I may have to call my doctor. I am already on anti depressent for depression. :([/QUOTE]

Legally if you did in fact sign a contract with this woman, then she is correct in asking for two weeks of childcare. However, it is your responsibility to protect yourself before she decides to take further legal action against you.

First, you need to send her a certified letter stating why you are terminating her services, keep a copy for your records. Call child services and explain your position and retain a copy or receipt of your conversation with whoever you speak to. Make a record of the events that led up to your decision to terminate her services and any conversations you have had with her, including email or written correspondence. This is all very important if she takes you to court because you will need to prove your side to a judge. Good luck! I think you made the right decision also, just do what you need to, to protect yourself.





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