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Well, I KNOW it's weird for you. But she's had the talk now and is trying it out. I remember I immediately started masturbating after I found out all about the birds and the bees (I found out alot at about 9 because I was curious and read alot.) because I was just totally curious about the whole thing. She could've been fantasizing with the pillow.

She's getting to the age where she's going to have hormonal urges. I would definitely talk to her about abstinance from real sex. I don't believe in actually TALKING about or explaining masturbation with your kids (unless they ask, I suppose, then you keep it simple! it just totally freaked me out when my parents did!) but expect them to do it and don't make a big deal out of it. Pretend like you believe her if she's caught and makes up something cause she's embarrassed. But yeah, I think it's all 100% normal fantasy/curiosity and I wouldn't freak out about it.

I'm only 23 myself, and remember those days clearly. I have a toddler who I can't imagine having to deal with the sex stuff with!!! :) It's so weird when it's your own kid, and you can never admit to yourself that they are actually old enough for that!!!!





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