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Hello there and i really hope i can get some good advice on this one, it's a doozie. I am currently 32 weeks pregnant with #2. my first son turned 19 months today. the pediatrician told us that we should switch our son to a toddler bed right away as he has been able to climb out of his crib on a few occasions (when very upset) other wise he has been VERY easy to get to go to bed. from 3 months on he has gone right to sleep with very little fuss with a few exceptions of being sick or over tired. the doctor said that if we transition him now then he should be well adjusted by the time the new baby comes and we wont deal with the dangers of him falling out of the crib while trying to get to DH and i because f the new baby being in our room. we agreed that we should do this so we got a very nice toddler bed, low to the ground and used his crib mattress with all his familiar things of course. he seemed very very excited when putting it together and we let him be apart of the assembly as well as the crib take down. he went right to sleep and we put a gate up infront of his room so if he did get up he wouldn't wander. or so we thought...right to sleep, yeah right.......
i woke up and figured out he could get out at will and started screaming like he was getting an arm cut off. i went in there and layed him back down and rubbed his back untill he fell asleep. looooonnnngggg story short, it has gotten worse and worse.....nights have gone by with screaming, fits, rage, fear, and my son hasn't done to well either. he has always ended up in our bed, one main reason is he landed a terrible stomach flu, so we reluctantly gave in...mistake i know, but the fear of him getting in trouble with his own vomit freaked me out. ANYWAY........ it has been 2 weeks and this poor kid can barley walk straight. between the flu and no sleep his is literally out of his mind. we decided to put his crib back up as he is clearly not able to handle it. he just stopped screaming after 2 hours after being back in his crib. he acted even worse being back where he once fell asleep so easily. i feel like i have messed him up for life. what do i do?
Hi nyxin, sorry I cant offer you any advice :( Just wanted to say hi and hopefully you can sort this out before your baby is born....I myself am still going through hell most nights getting Haley to sleep :o Tonight I put her down at about 7.45 pm and she didnt go to sleep until about 10 pm :eek: I think if Im lucky she will fall asleep peacefully maybe one or two nights a week if Im lucky. I guess I will be facing the same thing you are going through in the next 6 months or so :( You must be so exhausted you poor thing :yawn: not to mention your little boy ! I think I made a big boo boo with Haley. I went and brought her an ocean wonders aquarium that attaches to the cot thinking she will lay there and watch it and fall asleep. But it had the opposite affect. She WOULD NOT lay down at all LOL , she was standing up in her cot playing with it. Maybe its too stimulating for her at her age, looks like Adam will be getting it in his crib sooner rather than later LMAO.
Anyway just wanted to say hi and I will keep an eye on this post and see if you get any good advice, I may need it myself soon LOL
By the way good luck with the new bubs :D

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