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My son is 18 and I've never seen evidence of stains anywhere. He's very young for his age and, although I'm sure he touches himself, I'm not sure if he "knows" you're supposed to keep going until 'something happens'. I just couldn't imagine having an 11-year old masturbating until he orgasmed! Good god, he's got the rest of his life -- why should children be doing this?
[QUOTE=Hangin in There]My son is 18 and I've never seen evidence of stains anywhere. He's very young for his age and, although I'm sure he touches himself, I'm not sure if he "knows" you're supposed to keep going until 'something happens'. I just couldn't imagine having an 11-year old masturbating until he orgasmed! Good god, he's got the rest of his life -- why should children be doing this?[/QUOTE]

it has nothing to do with age, it's a natural part of being human. Geez people, this isn't the Victorian era.
Ok, so I laughed clear through this post and I finally decided I have got to comment on this one. First of all your son is normal for masturbating at 11 years old. I asked my dh if urinateing was natural at his age, since no one else answered your question, he said he did, because it gave him an overwhelming urge to pee when he reached orgasm and he would force himself to urinate. So...I hope that helped.
Second of all, I forgot the posters name on this one so I will just grab your attention by sayin, the one with the 18 year old who has never had an orgasm. HAHAHA that was great. If you have an 18 year old who has never reached orgasm, then honey your "baby boy" needs to grow up quickly. Either that or you need to get outta the 20's and into the 21st century with all of the rest of us. You seem to have lived a very sheltered life, and show that by critisizing the fact that children develop much quicker these days than they used to. There are girls, as young as 3rd and 4th grade starting their periods.... is that disgusting too?????? There are many children, under the age of 11 that have figured out what their genitalia is for, it is not disgusting unless you have some phobia of sex.....
I guess my two year old is nasty and disgusting too, because every time he gets his diaper taken off his hand goes straight for his penis, he hops up, takes off running, playing with his penis the entire time, he eventually finds himself in a position where he stops, and then he stands completely still and plays with it, til I get to him with a diaper. He does not reach orgasm, but, he does enjoy it apparently or he would not do it. So now, tell me my two year old is disgusting.....and that it is not normal.

HAHAHAHA EVEN MONKEYS AT THE ZOO DO IT WHEN THEY ARE BABIES....JUST A PIECE OF INFO.... PERVERTED LITTLE MONKEYS
I too, am joining this discussion very late. I have read through the entire post though. I actually found this post because I was searching for answers on how to handle this subject with my 11 year old that I recently discovered was masturbating. What can I say? I didn't do it that young but I am a school administrator and am somewhat educated on child psychology and physiology. All the literature and doctor's advise is pretty much the same- it's normal and the first time that young men do it varies because of the differing ages boys reach puberty. To think they won't do it is really being naive and to have an attitude that it is "disgusting" only sends a message to them that they are doing and feeling something wrong. Who knows what sort of damage that could do in the long run? The only thing I plan on doing is talking to my children about the differences between masturbation and sex and let them know that masturbation is normal and can be done discreetly. I feel this route is best as opposed to embarassing my son and making him feel "evil" and abnormal. It's not something I want to deal with but I certainly don't like to hear that people are disgusted by it. It actually saddens me because I can only imagine what sort of attitudes these peoples' children are developing about sex.





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