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... unless she has really tested the limits and then I spank her bare bum. Always, always in private so I don't humiliate her anymore than she is. I rarely speak loud to her in front of others too. ... (119 replies)
... I know my son. I know he knows his limits, I know he tests them, and I know that is age appropriate. All toddlers do this. However, toddlerhood is the age when children get out of control. ... (119 replies)
... I have a 2 year old almost 3 and I spank her mostly on the bum if she would not ABSOLUTELY listen to me what so ever. I spanked her bare bottom 2 or 3 times. ... (119 replies)

... I still to this day at 36 years of age think about the times when mum would hit me and it STILL upsets me. ... (119 replies)
... stick an object in an electrical outlet so he will know not to do it again. It's too dangerous. But if he doesn't listen to my warning, I spank him because I want to get the point across that I don't EVER want him doing that again. ... (119 replies)
... children always knew that if a spanking was warranted that they would get one, however, with showing the children love and the start of teaching at a very young age our children didnt require very many spankings. ... (119 replies)
... missTee - I don't have any cut and dried answers for you because as you know, our kids are just as different as we all are! I'll try to give a few suggestions that you could try, or not, as you see fit. 1- my #4 son went through a stage I call 'parental emotional blackmail'. Breakfast or dinner would about to be served (sometimes we'd already be eating), something (didn't... (119 replies)
... ce or to learn other methods that are not very the one in the post before yours...Pushups...thats really cute...and healthy...for the age appropriate child. We should be swapping ideas not telling each other how our kids are going to grow up messed up because they got spanked. ... (119 replies)
... s mom,Fairy Magick,Danimal 15, willy Shawn, dizzygirl. I'm not the best parent in the world but I think I've been a good parent with out spanking, my older boys age 28 father of 4 and my 2nd son age 25, daddy to 1 are both healthy ,happy , and sucessful in life and in marriage. ... (119 replies)
... e. "Foul language and physical abuse is a feeble mind searching to express its self". Spanking is a quick fix for parents IMO. Of course children hit at a young age they do a lot of things like pull hair too, its immature behavior. They cannot express there full feelings at that age. Or they don't know any better. ... (119 replies)
... Siren you might want to look into age appropriate behavior for a 2 year old. ALL 2 year olds laugh at you when you get angry with them. You cannot take it personally. ... (119 replies)
... t get spanked that often and now at the age of 21 and 22 they have both already been in jail, done drugs, not have a job and have my mom support them. ... (119 replies)
... I am in shock at how the majority of the people on here who still use hitting as a punishment! I am the mother of 2 girls, I hit my eldest daughter at the age of 2 1/2 for doing wrong (I was hit as a child), never again, I hated hurting her. I went out and looked for information on different parenting tecniques and controls. My eldest was a handful, very challenging and... (119 replies)
... At a younger age it was sentences and as they got older the sentances turned into paragraphs and so on. They hated it...I plan on using that one. ... (119 replies)
... Wow, this is a heated discussion! All I can comment on is my own experience. I was NEVER hit as a child. I was far from perfectly behaved, but my mother wouldn't dare. She (and my father) both believed there are more calm approaches to diciplining a little one. I agree with them. I don't see the benefits of hitting anyone, whether they be one or one hundred. We live in a... (119 replies)
... Actually, offkilter, you misquoted me. What I actually said was "I don't WANT to get angry while spanking him...." therefore, I don't allow myself. If the one lick works, I use it. No more after that FOR THAT VERY REASON. If the more swats through the diaper DON'T work, I begin to get angry with him. But I never continue beyond that. I really resent being practically called an... (119 replies)
... research. In fact, childhood agressivness has been more closely linked to maternal permissiveness than any type of discipline. My son first hit me at the tender age of 15 months, long before I had ever spanked him. Children don't have to be taught to be agressive. ... (119 replies)
... My sentiments exactly! As with the point I was making earlier, yes, there were times I feared my parents. But those were ONLY times when I had done deliberately wrong and had very good reason to worry. There is something wrong with a child who doesn't fear his or her parents in this situation. They become the very same people who don't fear the law. (119 replies)
Jan 20, 2007
... Do you spank children? ... (45 replies)
... Many studies will come out saying that you should spank your kids. Many studies will come out saying that you should definitely not spank your kids. I have researched these studies for a class of mine when I did a spanking topic. ... (12 replies)

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