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... hildren are not behaved..these children will learn eventually..they wont grow up hard tickets...some do..mind u...but kids r kids...if u believe that yelling and spanking a child is beneficial to them..its not... ... (119 replies)
... Thats Not What I Mean And You Know It!!! A Big Difference Between Hurting A Child And Giving Swats Or Taps On The Bum Or Hand!!!! ... (90 replies)
... my response is 'Well, the spanking will help you not to forget next time!' If you do this and stick with it, you won't have to yell and scream. ... (119 replies)

... I agree with spanking.I also agree that it is a stress reliever for parents. Here is why. I agree that spanking is very effective. At a certain age...about 2. ... (119 replies)
... ent the way we feel fit is just not going to change anyone minds and we are not 'trying' to change others views on this, BUT, I would like it if those who oppose spanking would stop refering to us as 'abusers'. ... (90 replies)
... d 'abuse' has come up soooo many times it really begins to hurt.And THAT is what I am defending. I'm not defending my right to spank. I'm defending the fact that spanking is not abuse and that I am not an abuser because I choose this method.I do believe whole heartedly in my choices. ... (90 replies)
... ier children as animals..and they use thier dicipline as they see fit...i never did say they were abusing thier children at all...i expressed my viewpoint on the spanking issue..if u took me that way..then thats all i can do..i was just expressing my opinion.. ... (119 replies)
... as spanked as a child also. He's actually the one that brought it up one day. He was asking me how I planned on punishing my son. If verbal isn't enough, then spanking is next in line, plain and simple. IMO there is nothing wrong with spanking. ... (119 replies)
... I was brought up by my mother as my dad was a journeyman bricklayer who only came home every 3-6 month so my mum was strict with us as she worked and looked after us all in a long day,our punishment was normally a spanking given either by my mother or by my auntie who looked after us when mum worked,bare bum spankings were regular as we were a handful,and always in trouble ,my... (28 replies)
... eed to put my two cents in here. I do not agree with spanking. I feel that it is the same thing as hitting a child. What is the difference if you hit them on the bum or the face or the arm? ... (119 replies)
... A good spanking is far from being abuse. ... (119 replies)
... Sadly yesterday we had to spank all 3 of our kids due to theft from my wifes purse which was found in the twins bedroom,the twins blamed each other and the youngest,the youngest said it wasnt him and blamed the twins saying it was in there bedroom we decided to ground them all for 1 week but told them if the one who took it owned up we would listen to the reason why before... (119 replies)
... my dad has said to me many times 'if it doesn't work, get a bigger stick'. He believes in spanking for any and every offence. On the other hand, we reserve spankings for deliberate disobediance and lying. ... (119 replies)
... On that note, i also do not consider spanking the same as hitting. Spanking is a form of punishment, and if done correctly, should not truly inflict pain. ... (119 replies)
... ondering how I could have done things differently, wondering when this will end, asking why she hads to be so defiant. I even found myself wondering if the whole spanking thing IS really necessary. ... (90 replies)
... hier room with the door closed...works wonders for me...it's consistancy...some parents get frustrated when the child don't learn from square one..thats when the spanking comes in...and that really instills fear rather than respect from the child..you want respect from your child rather than fear of your hand.... ... (119 replies)
... I have seen parents who hit there children and make a spectacle of themselves in public. Believe me those kids are not well behaved. Because if spanking worked why would they dare act out in public? ... (119 replies)
... eve my daughter listens to me real well. Wont listen to grandma. In fact grandmother lectures me about spanking. But if it is effective disapline and your only spanking the bum with your bare hands, I personally do not see the problem here. ... (119 replies)
... I also feel that each family has to do things that work best for them. If spanking is what you need to do, then thats what you need to do. I do think I am able to express my views. My big issue comes from the bare bumm thing. ... (119 replies)
... ther of us grew up thinking abuse is ok out of love at all. I would never abuse anyone and I know my sister wouldn't stand for it either. Making the comment that spanking leads to the belief that abuse is ok is wrong. I think it makes one believe that when you do something wrong, there are consequences. ... (90 replies)




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