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I do- I get a new friend and then after a while-I stop calling and start making myself "unavailable" for them to reach. It is not an intentional thing but lately - as I am on meds and trying to heal I see this pattern I have always had. I am a great friend-when I am one.

My drs and researching on the web- say it is a trust thing-when I feel like I am getting to close to a friend or boyfriend I automatically and unintentionally push them away. I can see that clearly now and hope I can change it now I see it. It has been over a year since I had a friend or boyfriend. I sometimes get lonely and wish I had someone to talk to but I just switch channels in my head and start reading on here-or researching.

I guess this site is my friend-lol
Caytie
My friend (whom I mentioned in a previous post) used to do that to me. She'd just kind of cut me off for months at a time. It used to hurt my feelings, then it made me mad, then when I learned about BPD, I just got used to it. Now I just let her have her space. LOL.
[QUOTE=Time2Heal]I do- I get a new friend and then after a while-I stop calling and start making myself "unavailable" for them to reach. It is not an intentional thing but lately - as I am on meds and trying to heal I see this pattern I have always had. I am a great friend-when I am one.
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Isn't this part of the very definition of BPD?

I don't have it, but I had a roommate who did, and she did this same thing, over and over.





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