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It is a rough road, and I wish all of us the best. The strongest wishes I have are for the people who suffer and WANT the support and WANT to understand and resolve the problems with themselves and who are DOING something about it.
STZenn -I agree so much with your above statement (I wasn't sure how to copy, maybe with the quote button, but I copied and pasted).
That brings me to my current problem. Tim has invited me to his counselling session, next Tues. He told his counselor that I think he has BPD, brought the book, they went down the list....and the counselor says he doesn't have it.....BS so I don't know how to proceed. If I push the issue, what is the point...just to PROVE that I'm right? If I don't, the problem will not get addressed properly. He didn't answer the question honestly, and of course I can't blame the counselor. I just don't know why they want me there....I think it's so they can tell me I'm insecure. That's what he told me the counselor said....LOL :rolleyes: what a joke. I will go and see, but I'm not sure how I'm going to feel after wards.
Just curious, because you mentioned it, I'm hoping you don't mind me bringing it up. You said you're a drug addict. Do you think that is part of why you stay with her? How bad is your addiction, if you don't mind me asking, what is your drug of choice, and are you trying to quit? You don't have to answer if you want and I apologize in advance if you think I'm being too nosy. I myself am addicted to pot, but haven't really addressed the issue or taken steps to stop. Maybe one of these days...The addictions board here has some really supportive people that really care and pull together for each other. You might want to check it out.
I hope your wife does accept the help she is being offered and really uses it to make a positive change in her life and in your marriage.

Lori - I know exactly what you mean about slamming you and then closing with I love you.....that's why the title of the book "I hate you don't leave me is so PERFECT." Thats what angers me, it's manipulation. They spew toxic venom and then follow it up with I love you and that's suppossed to erase the effects of chernoble.....poison. I am just distancing myself so much to protect myself. I've emotionally detached. I don't know why I just don't cut it off. Someone once said, if you pull a bandaid off quick it hurts less. I know that's true, but I keep pulling it off slowly, torturing myself and probably him, justifying it because I don't want to hurt him.

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