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i dont have any friends , i work about 50 hours a week, been divorced...i filed the complaint, i just cant trust people, have always been let down or disappointed by others, im falling into a rut and seclude myself from my family. what should i do. i want to be happy and enjoy life and get married again and have kids but i just dont want to get hurt again.
[QUOTE=scott 1972;3600247]i dont have any friends , i work about 50 hours a week, been divorced...i filed the complaint, i just cant trust people, have always been let down or disappointed by others, im falling into a rut and seclude myself from my family. what should i do. i want to be happy and enjoy life and get married again and have kids but i just dont want to get hurt again.[/QUOTE]
Do you have borderline personality?
Scott,

It's very difficult to open up and trust people again once we've been deeply hurt. It's not unusual to withdraw from the world for a while, but don't let it become habit. Find a Divorce Recovery group or get some counseling to help you through this. I take it you were born in 1972? That makes you very young--young enough to lead a very full life yet with love and much happiness when you find the right person. But I sense that you are going to need the help of others to heal from the pain of your divorce--that and time.

Stay in touch and let us know what you do and find.

Houston :angel:
you can't live your life afraid of everything. you only live once and if you don't make a change now then it will be too late. if you have been married before then you can do it again but you have to find the right person. everyone gets hurt many times in your life but you just have to move on and think positively
Scott,

One lesson to learn in life is that you should never look to anyone to make you happy. that way you give your power over to them. Rather say, I am happy or I feel happy when I am with this person or that person. I feel you have lost a lot of self confidence as well. Don't give others power over you at all, take back your power today. You are a precious individual person and have the right to love and happiness as much as the man next door or your friends. Human nature is to withdraw at the first sign of hurt, it is a survival instict, to protect ourselves, but realise you need to get out there again and know that NOT ALL people are hurtful. There are some really good and beautiful souls out there. The secret is to believe in YOURSELF, say to yourself, I deserve good people in my life and you will get them.

Good luck





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