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... call them, forget pride. let them in. wait a lot of time and get to know people very well before you trust them, and dont have your expectations too high. most people are not mind readers and us borderlines need to understand that and not put all our eggs in one basket. inevitably it all comes back to us and until we regard ourselves as important and we truly care what... (23 replies)
... I am so thankful that I have two super friends that saw what was happening to me and just waited for me to admit I have a problem. Then they directed me in the right direction. ... (7 replies)
Do I have BPD?
Mar 23, 2005
... o.k so everyday I think something is wrong with me. ... (9 replies)

... I do- I get a new friend and then after a while-I stop calling and start making myself "unavailable" for them to reach. It is not an intentional thing but lately - as I am on meds and trying to heal I see this pattern I have always had. I am a great friend-when I am one. My drs and researching on the web- say it is a trust thing-when I feel like I am getting to close to a... (23 replies)
... they are living proof that that quote is bogus! Recognize it when it occurs and find an alternative behavior that works best with perseverance. It takes practice, patience, understanding and support on everyone's part. ... (5 replies)
... Maybe they will help determine a little more whether it is BPD you're dealing with. Does she have very instable relationships with friends or boys? ... (7 replies)
Just joined today.
Jan 12, 2008
... ex is a perfect example. I fed his BPD for years while feeding my own on the back burner. But his was kept on high heat. I never put him in a position to make him look at his behavior. ... (15 replies)
... You do know that one of the things about being BPD is that we tend to blame ourselves. "We are either perfect, or perfectly awful." It's either all our fault or all someone else's fault. ... (48 replies)
... ing, especially about ourselves. I'd like to focus on Karen and the vibrant, beautiful woman she is. And I'd like to focus on how many people love Karen starting with your mother and sons, and yes, your father, even though you find it hard to believe. I'm sure he loves you very much. ... (21 replies)
Explaining BPD
Nov 15, 2003
... I'm not one who normally does things such as this, but I was hoping to get some insight from you guys. Questioning whether or not I have BPD is something that's been going on with me for a while now and I'm pretty scared to fully face it. ... (13 replies)
... I absolutely hate myself. I think I'm the ugliest girl in the world and it holds be back from going out with friends sometimes. ... (10 replies)
... ummm...i've struggled with eating disorders, depression, self injury, shoplifing, lying, and besides that have not done anything good in my life. ... (1 replies)
Fresh new update
Oct 28, 2005
... m sorry I've been away, I've been lurking a little, but it takes so much energy lately to think about my situation, much less type it out. I don't know. I went with him to the counselor, and it was ok. ... (149 replies)
... I'm 18 and was diagnosed about a year ago. I went through my four years of high school wondering what was wrong with me, since my friends had pointed my mood swings out. They all thought I was Bipolar, and I did too, but I felt something was wrong and different. ... (13 replies)
... hi i have a bpd and my partner and i have been together for just over 2 years, we have had our ups and downs but i have never felt so unhappy for so long before while with him. ... (1 replies)
... EG. Earlier this week I was out shopping when number one son had a problem with my home PC, ringing me on my mobile to inform me he had solved the problem with hewlett packard and had 'cleansed my hard drive' to remove a virus. ... (0 replies)
... When I get down, I will often go to the mall and walk around. Unfortunately, I often end up spending too much money...that's one of my BPD traits...buying stress relief... ... (9 replies)
... Has he ever become physical with her during these episodes? ... (27 replies)
... He had us break up into groups of 3 to start and I was put with a woman who barely speaks English and an African American woman who acted like she'd rather eat dirt and die than sit next to the white cripple. ... (91 replies)
... Thank you so much for your reply. I was terribly lonely as a child right through to today. I lived with a high stress, frightening situation that did not allow me to have any friends during my development years. ... (12 replies)


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