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... i've had a lot of friends leave me...and it hurts every time. ... (23 replies)
... OK I am having some problems dealing with a ton of people like this. I cannot determine if this problem is ME or if it is them. ... (23 replies)
... I too do the same thing. I suffer such bad separation anxiety that whenever I feel that I am getting close to someone, I fear losing them to the point that I unconciously do things to draw them away from me. Unfortunately, I have also started to do this with my counselor (a big no-no!) But luckily, she is used to it, so she knows how to snap me out of it. With some... (23 replies)

Do I have BPD?
Mar 23, 2005
... o.k so everyday I think something is wrong with me. ... (9 replies)
... started counting my moods and actually gave them names. All of my relationships have been unstable. I tend to date guys who lie and cheat, but I always stay with them. ... (3 replies)
... whole it's not going to work as well. It's like baking an apple pie and not putting the sugar in. You'll get an apple pie, but it won't taste as good as it could with the sugar. I hope I made sense to you. Let me know how you're doing. ... (8 replies)
... I have been diagnosed recently with bpd. ... (8 replies)
... apples with cheese, roasted chicken breast with salad and a glass of red wine. Earlier in the day I'd had some cottage cheese with fresh pineapple and a container of organic yogurt. It had to be nerves. ... (91 replies)
... To be totally honest with you, I never, EVER, considered staying with anyone who would cheat on me. Then again, I spoke without ever having actually been in the situation. All things considered, I wanted to leave. ... (38 replies)
... call them, forget pride. let them in. wait a lot of time and get to know people very well before you trust them, and dont have your expectations too high. most people are not mind readers and us borderlines need to understand that and not put all our eggs in one basket. inevitably it all comes back to us and until we regard ourselves as important and we truly care what... (23 replies)
... I do- I get a new friend and then after a while-I stop calling and start making myself "unavailable" for them to reach. It is not an intentional thing but lately - as I am on meds and trying to heal I see this pattern I have always had. I am a great friend-when I am one. My drs and researching on the web- say it is a trust thing-when I feel like I am getting to close to a... (23 replies)
... they are living proof that that quote is bogus! Recognize it when it occurs and find an alternative behavior that works best with perseverance. It takes practice, patience, understanding and support on everyone's part. ... (5 replies)




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