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Yes, it crept up slowly. First of all it was a few dollars/pounds to help her out, then paying the rent and on top of that, paying her bills. I think I said in the original post, she would criticise me about where all my money had gone as she had more bills to pay. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Then towards the end, it was like she was 'playing games' and mentioning that ex-boyfriends were getting in touch with her and things like that. I got the hell out, there and then, which was followed by her saying that I had abandoned her. She even accused me of stealing her grandmother's ring, on top of a load of other things. That's when I stopped responding to her emails. I didn't know what was going to come out of her mouth next, or what she would accuse me of via email. Like she was on some kind of character assassination vendetta towards me.

I have already looked up BPD. She may have it, who knows? Very odd relationship. I found her to be disconnected from me for long spells. She would also say she loved me and had never felt so sure about wanting to spend the rest of her life with me, engagement, etc, but her words didn't match her behaviours. A very odd experience indeed. I wish I had heeded to the red-flags throughout the time we became involved, but at the time, I just put it down to paranoia.

A very expensive lesson. Haha!!

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