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My husband was balding at 18. At 21 he shaved it and never looked back. Honestly when I met him at 28 he was bald, but it was love at first sight. Actually, come to think of it, if he had hair I may not of looked a second time. What did it for me as we got to know each other was his security in himself. No ego, just hey, this is me, I'm good with it. He never brought it up. He can be serious, act silly, and he is just himself and owns it - the good with the bad. When I met him he had interesting hobbies he enjoyed and it was pretty clear he was looking for a woman to fit into his life not vice versa. I found that 'man with a life' part attractive. I had dated men that just didn't have their own interests and it was not attractive. They would find out I like country music then next date they had on boots? What I'm saying is your head should be something they rub for you at the end of the day because you make them feel honored, you have stand up qualities, and they are proud to be by your side. Give a woman security, let her know your trustworthy and it won't matter if your green. Oh and PS my husband was single til 30 because he hadn't found the right girl yet. He wasn't going to settle. I hope your able to put it all in perspective soon.
[QUOTE=ZooKeeper5;5391599]My husband was balding at 18. At 21 he shaved it and never looked back. Honestly when I met him at 28 he was bald, but it was love at first sight. Actually, come to think of it, if he had hair I may not of looked a second time. What did it for me as we got to know each other was his security in himself. No ego, just hey, this is me, I'm good with it. He never brought it up. He can be serious, act silly, and he is just himself and owns it - the good with the bad. When I met him he had interesting hobbies he enjoyed and it was pretty clear he was looking for a woman to fit into his life not vice versa. I found that 'man with a life' part attractive. I had dated men that just didn't have their own interests and it was not attractive. They would find out I like country music then next date they had on boots? What I'm saying is your head should be something they rub for you at the end of the day because you make them feel honored, you have stand up qualities, and they are proud to be by your side. Give a woman security, let her know your trustworthy and it won't matter if your green. Oh and PS my husband was single til 30 because he hadn't found the right girl yet. He wasn't going to settle. I hope your able to put it all in perspective soon.[/QUOTE]



How tall is he ?


I agree having hobbies and interests certainly makes you more attractive. I love flying. I'm starting up again to start working on a commercial license. I haven't been able to fly for years because I was finishing a Master's and now I have the time and am in a great location for it.

When I was flying in the past it always made me happier and feel better about who I am. I don't know why I always cared so much about my looks. I always been crazy about that. I can't stand it when I even get slightly chubby. I have had a six pack since I was 13. I can't even feel comfortable with myself if I gain a little weight.

I am going to look at some other hobbies as well, I was thinking about doing some boxing and some other sports.

Outside of that I still stand firm in the height issue. Hair is not that big of a deal depending on a guys height and if has darker features.





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