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It sounds like you asking what to me is an innocent question, about when your boyfriend might marry you, really surprised him. To me, the fact that he has so many reasons indicates that he just doesn't want to commit right now. Obviously he must care about you since you are both living together. I'm not in love with the fact that he is talking with his ex, I'm sure you are not either. My question to you is, what are you thinking and feeling, about these answers your boyfriend is giving you? Your future is not solely dependent on how HE feels. How you feel matters too.
I also want to assure you that your question merely kicked up issues that were already there, so please don't regret that you may have opened a can of worms here.
What is coming out is essential for you to know, even if you are not feeling good about it.
Your boyfriend is selfish. He knows what he got into by moving into a home with you and he knows what you deal with physically and emotionally. If he cant see that he is leading you on- its his problem.
The fact that he is talking to his ex, the fact that he wants something from you which either you are incapable of giving or in his mind, arent giving enough of- are all warning signs. You cant make this man happy.....
The bigger question is can he make you happy?
Dont settle for 'good enough"- you deserve a man who wants a future and thinks you are the brightest spot in his world. You dont deserve a man who talks down to you or talks to his ex about how he isnt getting enough affection from you.
Think about it...did he do you a favor by telling you there is no hope for a future legally?

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