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It's come to my attention that I'm simply too ugly to date. I'm short, have bad hair and bad skin (freckles, some wrinkles). I've tried n tried and constantly get rejected, have woman tell me I'm ugly on a consistent basis, even ppl don't like to associate with me because of the way I look. I keep in shape, have low bf and nice muscles, but that doesn't matter because of my face/hair/skin and height.

I am 34. I'm trying to not imagine being alone for ever, but it looks like it is going that way. It's getting hard to deal with and I can't really feel happy about the future anymore. I have had a few shorter term gfs and sexual relations, but nothing of a longer relationship and I feel like I'm just going to be weeded out for my bad genetics.

Weirdly I had one girl recently who was quite a bit younger than me think I'm attractive, I don't know if she has "Dad issues", because it made no sense to me, we could not date because of our age difference, but it made me temporarily feel good, even though I felt like it was a complete fluke. I get told constantly I'm not attractive or not that attractive to point where I just don't have any way of feeling good about myself. I have good career, am in the military and always been good at sports, know how to fly planes. But it makes no difference.
Has it worked for you? I just feel like giving up, I've tried so much, I've tried to tell myself I look ok, but I get so much negative feedback, it's hard to believe it.
[QUOTE=waywardson;5448180]Has it worked for you? I just feel like giving up, I've tried so much, I've tried to tell myself I look ok, but I get so much negative feedback, it's hard to believe it.[/QUOTE]


I wasn't looking anymore. The first and last girl I asked out shot me down. All I did was walk into a bar and now I have a GF. So I guess you could say it worked. It won't be easy but you'll get there. Just be comfortable with yourself. Just trust that she's out there and never settle. If (God forbid) you never find her, there are worse things than ending up alone. Trust me, I've seen it firsthand.





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