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You are right..happiness is the best revenge.

So you dont go to holidays at your families house. Neither do I and I LOVE IT!

There is no drama and my husband and my kids and I spend a day together with no outside interference. Try it- with a positive attitude. You'll see. Its actually great!

As you are starting to realize, you cannot stop your mom from whatever it is she wants to do...just they say....DO YOU. And be happy you dont have the same problems!

One day, when you start acting like it no longer matters, your mom will come to you...just make sure you leave the door open for her to do so. Dont push her away, just dont engage in her drama with your sister...dont badmouth her to anyone, your brother included. Simply send her a message now and then saying "Thinking of you. Hope all is well. Call me sometime, Id love to see you" and let her make the next move.

Im living proof that it can work. You just have to handle this differently and instead of letting everyone know it bothers you, move on and dont let it.

I wish you the best.

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