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This is about my boyfriend and I.

We have a pretty great relationship. We get along, hardly ever fight, like the same things etc. he kisses me all the time and tells me he loves me.

The issue is that my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me. Ever. We've been together for 10 months, live together (there was no pressure involved and was his idea) and we've never had sex. Only oral sex, for him. (and some touching for me)

I don't know if this relationship could be sustainable long term because of this. The last thing I want to do is settle into a more permanent situation if he's not truly wanting this. I'm fat. I was fat when we met so it's not like I just gained 50 pounds after we started dating. He also doesn't have a 'thing' for fatties.

I've brought up the issue before and he talks around it. this got me worrying at that point.


I honestly do think its because he's not physically attracted to me. I know he's emotionally and mentally attracted to me and maybe that's what's keeping him in this relationship. But I don't want it to be like that. If I cannot provide all of what he needs, it pains me to say this but he should find someone who does. I don't want the relationship to end but its not worth it if hes not happy sexually, because I'm not either. we've made future plans but I have this issue in the back of my hand.

Oh, and he does watch porn. I honestly dont think he would cheat on me. He's a sweet guy and has been cheated on before. I know he doesnt want to hurt me, which is why maybe he's not telling me that he isnt attracted to me. I'm so lost. He was single for a while before we got together.

I don't know even know what to think anymore tbh.





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