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Re: Am I Wrong?
Dec 5, 2003
I applaud you for making the right decision. You're better off not experimenting with this guy, since it could backfire. Besides, I don't think you would be satisfied for long being intimate with someone you have no respect for.

Other than that, I agree with you that it is not really your responsibility that his girlfriend is putting up with his philandering ways. Nobody is forcing her to be in this situation, she only has herself to blame. This guy does sound like a loser. Leave them both alone with their dysfunctional relationship-- you deserve better.
Re: Am I Wrong?
Dec 8, 2003
"Other than that, I agree with you that it is not really your responsibility that his girlfriend is putting up with his philandering ways. Nobody is forcing her to be in this situation, she only has herself to blame."

I think it's true that it's not your fault that she chooses to stay with someone who cheats on her. It's not your fault that he hurts her, but I I think you can make the choice as to whether or not you will be the one he hurts her with. That's a hard line to draw, I know, especially when good men are hard to find and morality is a very expensive luxury sometimes. I'm not sure what I would do in the same situation, but I know I would feel some guilt sleeping with a man who had an SO. I wouldn't want another woman sleeping with my man when she knew I existed, and I do think you should treat others as you would want to be treated. Enjoi, glad you made the choice you made. I don't mean to preach, really I don't, though it's probably gonna sound like it, but I think part of the reason why there are 1.5 million abortions and why so many young girls put their newborn babies in toilets and garbage dumpsters and leave them to die is because we have developed a general lack of respect for human life. And no wonder. How can we have a deep-abiding reverence and respect for human life when we have such callous disregard and disrespect for the act that creates it? Marie Osmond (I know miss white-bread goodie goodie pepsident twin, but she's actually pretty cool) said that sex is never casual, no matter how hard we try to make it that way. I tend to agree.





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