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Hi....my exhusband just recently got married to a real charm. We have 2 children, ages 5 and 8. The kids have been coming home telling me and my husband that they don't like being at their dads house because they don't care for their new step mom or 14 year old step sister. The new wife has told my 8 year old several things about me that really upset my son. She calls me several names that a child should never have to hear anyone say about his mom. The 5 year old comes home upset because they are yelling at her. The step-sister has hit my kids, called them names, and is just down right nasty to them at times. My ex-husband refuses to handle the situation, he tells me that i am the one with the problem, so i need to handle it. when i have tried to talk to her, she ends up screaming and yelling at me. she is a total nut! i can't talk to her rationally about anything. she has my ex now telling me that if i need to discuss anything that has to do with the kids, then i need to e-mail him and not call him. She says that I have no reason to ever speak to him again. Before he met her we got along just fine, no problems. It wasn't a messy divorce at all. I am at my wits end with this lady and her daughter...i need some advice please!!!
[QUOTE=rileyroe]Hi....my exhusband just recently got married to a real charm. We have 2 children, ages 5 and 8. The kids have been coming home telling me and my husband that they don't like being at their dads house because they don't care for their new step mom or 14 year old step sister. The new wife has told my 8 year old several things about me that really upset my son. She calls me several names that a child should never have to hear anyone say about his mom. The 5 year old comes home upset because they are yelling at her. The step-sister has hit my kids, called them names, and is just down right nasty to them at times. My ex-husband refuses to handle the situation, he tells me that i am the one with the problem, so i need to handle it. when i have tried to talk to her, she ends up screaming and yelling at me. she is a total nut! i can't talk to her rationally about anything. she has my ex now telling me that if i need to discuss anything that has to do with the kids, then i need to e-mail him and not call him. She says that I have no reason to ever speak to him again. Before he met her we got along just fine, no problems. It wasn't a messy divorce at all. I am at my wits end with this lady and her daughter...i need some advice please!!![/QUOTE]

Sounds like a nut. Suggest applying for full custody. I'd make a few phonecalls and see what you can do legally. If your ex is allowing this physical abuse to occur in [I]his [/I] custody something needs to be modified. She and her child seem to have behavioral problems. Get things documented. You need a mediator or councel to figure out what can be done. See what can be done legally to back you up for your kids safety.

Ditto supervised visitation. If they don't like it, they can lump it :D





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