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Ok, I understand being protective and being a little insecure but when is jealousy considered to go over the line into possessiveness?

My new boyfriend is pushing me to feel a little controled. I thought it was cute that he was so worried about me, but now he notices men staring at me when I don't. He knows a couple guys I've dated in the past 7 years, two of which are still my friends and WE can no longer be associated with them because they slept with me in the past and every guy has ulterior motives.

He wants to make love all the time, even when we've just finished and he knows I'm sore. He's pushing me to get a restraining order against my ex boyfriend because he's still harassing me and has tried to commit suicide. (I know I should get this anyway, he just acts as if the extensive paperwork is me procrastinating and gets mad). He accuses me of still caring for my ex because the papers haven't been served yet, but he's never offered his help.

Also, he sleeps in until 1 or 2 pm because he doesn't have a job and gets mad about all the things that I DIDN"T take care of due to porcrastination. For example he wanted to make love unprotected and I let him. I don't know if it was an accident but I needed to pick up the morning after pill and I asurred him that I would. He kept me up until 5am and I had to get up for work at 7am. Then he was yelling at me after work because I didn't pick up the prescription, even though you have 72 hours. (I wasn't planning on waiting to the last minute but I could barely drive home from work without nodding off). It was only 7pm and I get home at 5:30pm.

I don't know. It just feels like I have all these standards to live up to and he doesn't even have to get out of bed until 2. I don't call him a procrastinator if he doesn't make out a resume the moment he has a spare minute. In fact in three weeks I think he's actively looked for a job for one day only.

Does it sound like I am a procrastinator or that he is becoming too jealous?

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