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Phone calls
Jan 30, 2004
My boyfriend and I have been together now for quite a while. He has always been really good at calling me when he says he will call. He has never operated on "guy time" You know how some guys will say they will call you the next day, and then they don't call for 2 weeks. And if he ever did forget to call he would call right away the next day and let me know what was up. He was really sweet that way, and that was one of the things that impressed me most about him. Well, lately he has been forgetting to call when he says he will. I haven't said anything to him yet, and I haven't been calling him more often than I normally would. When he forgets to call should I call him? I have heard that it is a turn-off for the girl to call, and that men like to be the ones to persue. Should I be concernd about his recent lack of phone manners?? I don't know what the deal is and I don't want to sound like a jelous or controlling girlfriend. I'm not that way at all... but when someone says they are going to call and then don't... it is easy for a girl to wonder... especaly when it is out of character. I don't know if he is doing this because he is a "guy" and he has just gotten comfortable with our relationship... or if he doesn't want to see me anymore. He used to call me every day... and this past week he only called me once. I was having some doubts a while back about our relationship, because he would always find time for his group of buddies... but hardly ever invited me out wtih them. We basically worked through that problum... but it seems as soon as I think I know whats going on I'm at a loss again. Anyone else ever have the same problum? From past relationships I've found that when the guy stops calling, it usually means a lack of intrest... but I have been friends with this guy for over 2 years. Any insight would be great. Thanks

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