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[COLOR=DarkOrange][FONT=Comic Sans MS]This is long.. please bare w/ me!!!!

OK.. I am not sure where my responsiblity is here.... :rolleyes: I have been best friends w/ Amber for 5 years now, I have been great friends w/ Jeff for 3 years now. I am the one they BOTH come to for all advice and guidance. Recently they began dating *of course w/ the help of me* They both have been really good friends for about a year and a half... so they are adjusting to a realtionship as more than friends... its always hard. Anyways point is... from Amber's point of view things are going GREAT for them, from Jeff's point of view things are weird and shaky. I don't feel that it is my place to relay every little comment from each other to the other one... I told them I wouldn't do it. So I havent. They have been together for 3 weeks now.. .Amber if falling for Jeff hard... Jeff called me to come over and talk w/ him tonight. He has confided in me as his best friend the following information... he still loves his ex, he doesnt feel a spark between him and amber and he is thinking about breaking it off w/ her... I talked to him as his friend not Ambers to be fair in my advice... in the end of our conversation he has decided he needs to break it off w/ amber now to try to salvage a friendship and to not hurt her as much as he would if he waited another month while he sorted his thought!!! now that that is out of the way... who do I hold a higher obligation to? Do I stay commited to the fact that Jeff confided in me and let him go and take the steps neccessary to talk to Amber... or do I be a friend to Amber and tell her why he is acting weird when she asks me? I dont know if I am obligated to tell her whats going on or obligated to keep Jeffs trust in me to not say anything... some one please help... Thank yoU!!

Sincerely...
:bouncing: Deena :bouncing: [/FONT][/COLOR]





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