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[QUOTE=saphiremist]Just a quick background. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years (yes, you read it right that is a whole other question.) We have been having a long distance relationship for the past 3 years. About 3 months ago he moved from indiana to Arizona, and now lives with me.

Recently my boyfriend went out of town, back to Indiana. I had suspected something was going on, lack of sex, lack of affection, unkind words, etc. While he was gone I went into his email. (Before you say it I know it was more than wrong, which is what makes this dilema so difficult.)

Anyway, I found over 20 emails from a girl he knew when he lived in Indiana. Each of these emails contained everything from naked, very explicit pictures, to actual videos of herself in sexual situations. There were also many that indicted that they had been instant messaging each other. These emails were sent between Oct 1st and Nov 20th. He moved in with me on Nov 24. Then there was another email sent about 3 weeks ago that asked him if he was on line, gave her phone number.

I really don't know what to do. How do i confront someone with information that I gained only by being decitful?[/QUOTE]

This is a very touchy situation :confused:

If he is cheating you should leave him know but the best thing to do is comfront him. I wouldn't mention the emails until you here what he has to say. If he denies then you may want to say somthing. The bad thing about this is he may be just having an online affair and if its just that he may not trust you anymore because you invaded into his privacy.

Just take it on step at a time and hear what he has to say.

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