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AlienzAngel777 - instead of you being scared...what about your boyfriend?
Is he not scared too that he is going away and leaving you alone?
Isn't it just possible you will meet someone too while he is gone?

Your both headed to college so that tells me your both young & in love.
I'm not trying to knock your age...but your thoughts are all about him and not about you..You too will be meeting other man. If your so scared of losing him: then you never had him in the first place.
Enjoy the wonderful moments you have shared, yes it will be painful and you will miss him dearly...but...You need to devlope a life for yourself so you don't feel insecure and that your boyfriend is going to meet someone else.
YOU COULD TOO! You don't trust him because like you said you were cheated on before or that "someone" will talk him into doing something?
So are you saying he can't make decisions on his own and if he cheated on you while he's at the new college and he told you he was talked into you will accept that?

You can't control what happens to your boyfriend while he's away at college,
you have to have faith and trust and keep yourself busy instead of driving yourself crazy of these thoughts that may not happen.

GOOD LUCK.
[QUOTE=GirlHarley]AlienzAngel777 - instead of you being scared...what about your boyfriend?
Is he not scared too that he is going away and leaving you alone?
Isn't it just possible you will meet someone too while he is gone?

Your both headed to college so that tells me your both young & in love.
I'm not trying to knock your age...but your thoughts are all about him and not about you..You too will be meeting other man. If your so scared of losing him: then you never had him in the first place.
Enjoy the wonderful moments you have shared, yes it will be painful and you will miss him dearly...but...You need to devlope a life for yourself so you don't feel insecure and that your boyfriend is going to meet someone else.
YOU COULD TOO! You don't trust him because like you said you were cheated on before or that "someone" will talk him into doing something?
So are you saying he can't make decisions on his own and if he cheated on you while he's at the new college and he told you he was talked into you will accept that?

You can't control what happens to your boyfriend while he's away at college,
you have to have faith and trust and keep yourself busy instead of driving yourself crazy of these thoughts that may not happen.

GOOD LUCK.[/QUOTE]


Good call HarleyGirl. If they were both seniors in college and had been together for years, then I could see trying to make things work. But if they are early on in college......HAVE FUN! Trust me, you'll regret it if you don't!





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