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Re: I miss him.
Apr 7, 2004
A little bit is actually cute sometimes. But about a week ago, I asked her to retrieve a text message from my new phone which I couldn't remember how to get to. She opened it and read the message, it was a polite message from my ex girlfriend, she has MS, and I sent your a voice message asking her how her health was. She just said thanks for your concern, nothing sexual or anything. Anyone that can get jealous about a person in that condition needs to go. I couldn't get over that. She also got really jealous when I danced with someone I knew in a club. She was dancing with guys I knew, and I didn't care. So I want the same. What do you think, Right thing to do, right?
Re: I miss him.
Apr 7, 2004
[QUOTE=CoreyP]A little bit is actually cute sometimes. But about a week ago, I asked her to retrieve a text message from my new phone which I couldn't remember how to get to. She opened it and read the message, it was a polite message from my ex girlfriend, she has MS, and I sent your a voice message asking her how her health was. She just said thanks for your concern, nothing sexual or anything. Anyone that can get jealous about a person in that condition needs to go. I couldn't get over that. She also got really jealous when I danced with someone I knew in a club. She was dancing with guys I knew, and I didn't care. So I want the same. What do you think, Right thing to do, right?[/QUOTE]

Well, my opinion has little to do with it, hon! It's what YOU think is right. I also have no idea about how long you had been seeing this girl or how serious it was. Your ex that has MS....was she the one that hurt you so badly?
Re: I miss him.
Apr 7, 2004
[QUOTE=CoreyP]A little bit is actually cute sometimes. But about a week ago, I asked her to retrieve a text message from my new phone which I couldn't remember how to get to. She opened it and read the message, it was a polite message from my ex girlfriend, she has MS, and I sent your a voice message asking her how her health was. She just said thanks for your concern, nothing sexual or anything. Anyone that can get jealous about a person in that condition needs to go. I couldn't get over that. She also got really jealous when I danced with someone I knew in a club. She was dancing with guys I knew, and I didn't care. So I want the same. What do you think, Right thing to do, right?[/QUOTE]


I couldn't help jumping in...YEP...I think so too, I think you did the right thing. Chica 32 and still playing these games...Not Cool! :yawn:
Re: I miss him.
Apr 7, 2004
[QUOTE=newlywedgurl]
Corey, I'm gonna go out on a limb here, and please forgive me if I am wrong.....Would it be fair to say that since you were hurt so deeply and betrayed so horribly that not only are you emotionally unavailable to anyone you date, but that you look at the women you date as "unworthy" from the get-go? Do you find yourself bordering on expecting them to "pay" for the hurt that you went through at the hands of another lady?? That you hold them to unreasonable standards that no one would ever be able to live up to so that you are not disappointed again?? You know....the whole Don't get your hopes up kind of thing?[/QUOTE]

That's what I was thinking too. It seems that Corey, willingly or not, is still somewhat stuck on his ex-girlfriend and does not give anyone new a chance. So why exactly did you break up with the 32-yr old? From what I see, she was insecure about your feelings for her, and rightfully so. You said so yourself that you didn't care about her, and that it wouldn't bother you if someone else was hitting on her. That could mean that you either don't love this particular woman, or that you are just not ready or not willing to love anyone, period. There is a difference here. Your reason for breaking up with her was just an excuse. I don't agree that she was playing head games, I think there was something in your behavior towards her that made her doubt your feelings for her. And then you told her you're not jealous at all if some other guy wants her. How do you think it's going to make her feel? It's going to make her feel like she means NOTHING to you. And maybe you just happen to not be in love with her, and you can't do anything about it, so it's good you let her go. But it could also be that you are so bitter about your ex, and so hung up on her at the same time, that you would not care about ANYONE. Catherine Zita Jones could be throwing herself at you and professing her undying love, and you would not care. That would be sad, because you could be potentially rejecting women who could be good for you, just because your heart is so closed. And who would be losing out here? YOU! You're living in the past, it seems. You send flowers to a woman who cheated on you repeatedly and broke your heart, but are rejecting one who is craving your attention. I can't blame her for being jealous. MS or not, you shouldn't be sending flowers to the ex when you never send flowers to your current girlfriend. Any woman would have been jealous.





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