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I am getting confused with this post...

BOY...22, Depressed, Smoker, Drinker, Controll Freak, Cry baby, trying to hold onto girlfriend who wants to break up with him...Using the OH..pity me I was so good to you how can you not see that, please stay and if you stay,,,,
I will make you feel guilty for Even Thinking of Leaving me...I will control you for hurting me, I will drink and smoke ALL I want just to hurt you because you don't want me to....PLEASE!

GIRL...20, I love him, why won't he change for ME, I feel bad that I broke up with him, he's doing things I don't like, But I love him and I don't want to hurt him....I want him to say he's sorry for not being the man I want...But I love him....I want him to change like I am changing...But I love him and don't want to hurt him...I want to be single and date other guys, but I love this guy because he Cried when I broke up with him and he don't me I didn't appreicate him and I was rude to him....But.....I love HIM......

You can LOVE someone but that someone may not be right for you.
You can LOVE someone but not LIKE them as a person.
You can LOVE someone but that someone MAY NOT LOVE YOU...
LOVE is not like a light switch where you can turn it on and off.....

Great, we all know you love him....But you don't want him.......
WHY are you confusing yourself and then confuse him with your emotions?
MOVE on, he is not for you...and you are not for him....


I want him to be responsible for his words and actions.
What purpose would this solve? Would it make you feel better and take away the guilt of you breaking up with him? You know why you are breaking up with him so why would you need him to be responsible? and if you don't get this from him?
You will stay with him till you get it and then break up with him?
DO you want him to cry for you again?





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