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Three cheers, here here and amen, Madskillsgal!! I agree totally, I too have a BIG problem with the "bitter" label just because you state the truth. And I haven't really seen much "bashing" on this board anyway. For example, to say that men have a problem with honesty is not male bashing, it's just the truth, not a very flattering truth, but it's the truth nonetheless. My ex boyfriend's roommate can't be faithful to a woman if his life depended on it. I watched him lie for a year over and over to his girlfriend. He brought his girlfriend from his hometown to visit and told his girlfriend she had to stay away while she was here because she still had a thing for him, and he didn't reciprocate but his mom would be there too and it would upset her, blah blah blah, lies lies lies. He just wanted an uninterrupted good time with his hometown girl. His cell phone rang once and he wasn't near to it so she was going to answer it, but came running and grabbed it from her and said he didn't want her answering his phone because she was rude. This was the sweetest girl in the world without a rude bone in her body. He just didn't want her to know he had other women calling him. My ex told me he didn't want to be with me anymore because we weren't compatible enough because I wasn't Catholic enough, I didn't embrace natural family planning enough, I didn't judge divorce and divorced people as harshly as he did, I didn't put the brakes on our physical relationship the way a good girl should, I suggested living together outside of marriage. Then as soon as he dumped me he started sleeping with a divorcee with three kids from another man and tied tubes. He just didn't have the guts to be honest with me. He knew if he were honest, he'd have lost me before he was ready to give up his convenient little bed warmer. The fact is most men have a big problem with being honest. That's not bashing, it's just the truth, an unpleasant truth, but the truth. I don't believe I've ever male bashed here, but if someone asks me "why did he do this/that, why do men do this/that/the other" I have no problem offering my opinon based on my own experiences. And yes, while it's illegal in this country to beat your wife or to ask if a woman is married or pregnant in a job interview, I do wish every man could apply for a job, an apartment, or try to buy a used car disguised as a woman. He'd get quite an education on how fair things are.
[QUOTE=Ninispjc]Three cheers, here here and amen, Madskillsgal!! I agree totally, I too have a BIG problem with the "bitter" label just because you state the truth. And I haven't really seen much "bashing" on this board anyway. For example, to say that men have a problem with honesty is not male bashing, it's just the truth, not a very flattering truth, but it's the truth nonetheless. My ex boyfriend's roommate can't be faithful to a woman if his life depended on it. I watched him lie for a year over and over to his girlfriend. He brought his girlfriend from his hometown to visit and told his girlfriend she had to stay away while she was here because she still had a thing for him, and he didn't reciprocate but his mom would be there too and it would upset her, blah blah blah, lies lies lies. He just wanted an uninterrupted good time with his hometown girl. His cell phone rang once and he wasn't near to it so she was going to answer it, but came running and grabbed it from her and said he didn't want her answering his phone because she was rude. This was the sweetest girl in the world without a rude bone in her body. He just didn't want her to know he had other women calling him. My ex told me he didn't want to be with me anymore because we weren't compatible enough because I wasn't Catholic enough, I didn't embrace natural family planning enough, I didn't judge divorce and divorced people as harshly as he did, I didn't put the brakes on our physical relationship the way a good girl should, I suggested living together outside of marriage. Then as soon as he dumped me he started sleeping with a divorcee with three kids from another man and tied tubes. He just didn't have the guts to be honest with me. He knew if he were honest, he'd have lost me before he was ready to give up his convenient little bed warmer. The fact is most men have a big problem with being honest. That's not bashing, it's just the truth, an unpleasant truth, but the truth. I don't believe I've ever male bashed here, but if someone asks me "why did he do this/that, why do men do this/that/the other" I have no problem offering my opinon based on my own experiences. And yes, while it's illegal in this country to beat your wife or to ask if a woman is married or pregnant in a job interview, I do wish every man could apply for a job, an apartment, or try to buy a used car disguised as a woman. He'd get quite an education on how fair things are.[/QUOTE]


To comment to the above, I ALSO have a massive problem with the bitter label.

However i would just comment women are the best liars of all and you know why? Because we are clever enough to make them SOUND truthful. Men aren't clever enough to cover their tracks, and even if some are, women will UNCOVER them because we have that 'dog with a bone' instinct. We will NOT rest until we are proven right.

Today we are living in a different economic world than even just one generation ago. More than ever women are courageous enough, YES COURAGEOUS, to walk away from negative situations that our foremothers endured, in order to bring up children alone. However, until society acknowledges this as COURAGEOUS and not irresponsibility, we will be fighting a losing battle. And whilst men, in every day life and governments, acknowledge that as women we are weaker physically and are not offered the same rate of pay as a man to enable us to bring up our children in a stable fashion, we will continue to BE held down. I say sisters stand TIGHT with womanhood. Imagine tomorrow if YOUR world turned upside down and you were faced with your man's fist in your face and without his wage....wouldn't YOU want us to help you fight your corner?


ME = every woman's best friend, every MAN'S worst nightmare. I'm a STRONG woman today, so BE scared! ;)





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