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I don't necessarily disagree with any of the above posters but I did want to give my perspective as a cheater. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend many, many times over the years that we were together and I can say with certainty that I did love him. We were not married nor did we ever live together. He was my first love, my first sexual partner, and we were together for 13 years.

The reason (not excuse, I was wrong no doubt about it) was that my needs were not being met by him. Instead of breaking up with him and moving on like a mature person should do, I stayed with him and looked to get my needs met elsewhere. Even though, he did not meet all of my needs, I still loved him and he was my best friend. When I finally mustered up the courage to break up with him, I missed him so badly and still loved him for a good while.
[QUOTE=trystme]I don't necessarily disagree with any of the above posters but I did want to give my perspective as a cheater. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend many, many times over the years that we were together and I can say with certainty that I did love him. We were not married nor did we ever live together. He was my first love, my first sexual partner, and we were together for 13 years.

The reason (not excuse, I was wrong no doubt about it) was that my needs were not being met by him. Instead of breaking up with him and moving on like a mature person should do, I stayed with him and looked to get my needs met elsewhere. Even though, he did not meet all of my needs, I still loved him and he was my best friend. When I finally mustered up the courage to break up with him, I missed him so badly and still loved him for a good while.[/QUOTE]

That's interesting, considering your screenname.....how many times did you tell him what you needed from him before you decided to "take the matter into someone else's hands?"





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