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[QUOTE=trystme]Also try to make her see that she is teaching her daughter that it is ok for a woman to be treated poorly and that it is ok to desperately go after a loser. .[/QUOTE]
Refreshing to see someone offer the most important issue here. The idea is that parents, at the point of becoming a parent, makes a contract with their child to love them care for them, and demonstrate for them life’s lessons that will aid them in living a happy and healthy adulthood. This obligation takes precedence. Kids deserve to be raised in a mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically healthy environment and it is the parent's responsibility to live up to the contract.

Since there is no advise she can be given that will unite her with this man, my advise would be to offer to this woman that concern over her child is a better way to channel herself than with guys of this ilk. I have no doubt this woman is fully aware she has low self esteem and low self worth, so advising her of this would be useless. The limited power you have is to keep trying to educate her that self esteem comes only through personal accomplishments, such as in serving others or putting great effort into some effort that is enriching and satisfying. Try to get her into something that will cause her to see herself as valuable and useful. This is not a prolem that talk will resolve.





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