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[QUOTE=mary2468]well, i actually had to meet her a couple days ago, and it, it was awkward. we met them out at a bar, where she was already hanging out w/ a couple of his friends (including his roommate), so she was really drunk by the time we got there, while I was completely sober. she said it was sooo nice to meet me, that she'd heard a lot about me, and she gave me a hug, but it could have all been fake...who knows? i don't really care if it was fake or not...i didnt want to hug her back, but i wasnt about to be rude to my boyfriend's "friend." i really had nothing to say to her....i mean, my mind was literally blank. needless to say i was relieved when i made my escape and only hung out w/ my boyfriend the rest of the night. besides introducing her to me, he didn't really talk to her at all, so i guess they're not that good of friends. i dunno...i guess it just kinda bothers me b/c he doesnt understand that it IS awkward for me, regardless of if they're friends or not, b/c to me she's still just his EX! maybe im just being picky...or bratty, i dunno. we didn't get into any fights over it or anything...i just ended up getting a little upset about the whole situation in front of him and cried a little (the [U]first time [/U] he's ever seen me cry). he was really good though...he held me and made sure i was ok, and asked why i was upset and all that good stuff....i guess im just worried about this situation coming up again, and how i should handle the whole kinda hoping she just fades out of our lives.

ps sorry for rambling ;)[/QUOTE]

I think you handled yourself Great! You do not sound bratty at all, your boyfriend doesn't understand because, sounds like he has no feelings for his ex at all and HE did spend the night w/you...Sounds like you have a great guy there and your feelings are totally understandable...

I'm sure the upcoming visit is making you uneasy and you have every right to feel this way, your only human with natural emotions.. sweetie...You did a great job the first time meeting the girl and you can do it again...She will fade out soon enough..Just stay strong, positive, look your best :) hang with your boyfriend but don't smother him, don't get mad if you see him have a conversation w/her..join him, don't act jealous because Your better then that and You do get to go home with him after.. :wave:
good luck... :)

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