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I think there are several reasons why couples fight.
1. They are emotionally immature and don't know how to properly communicate their feelings and thoughts. ( too young)
2. Their own parents were poor role models, ie: their own parents fought or had issues while they grew up, therefor they have no good relationship skills to build from.
3. Basic personality clash. For example, my BF and his ex wife bickered like cats and dogs to the point where their friends couldn't stand to be around them together. They both grew up as only children and are used to getting their way and the last word. With me, my BF and I hardly ever fight, but I was the youngest child growing up and used to compromising.

I think the first two reasons are capable of being fixed through counciling, the basic personality clash would be hard to fix through counciling. Just my 2pennies...
Best wishes in figuring this out :wave:
[QUOTE=desertdweller]I think there are several reasons why couples fight.
1. They are emotionally immature and don't know how to properly communicate their feelings and thoughts. ( too young)
2. Their own parents were poor role models, ie: their own parents fought or had issues while they grew up, therefor they have no good relationship skills to build from.
3. Basic personality clash. For example, my BF and his ex wife bickered like cats and dogs to the point where their friends couldn't stand to be around them together. They both grew up as only children and are used to getting their way and the last word. With me, my BF and I hardly ever fight, but I was the youngest child growing up and used to compromising.

I think the first two reasons are capable of being fixed through counciling, the basic personality clash would be hard to fix through counciling. Just my 2pennies...
Best wishes in figuring this out :wave:[/QUOTE]


I know everytime I fight it is mostly about differences. You post makes sense but in my case its because we can never get things on the same page. Eventually we settle up the differences.

Thats just my expierence





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