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[QUOTE=joquiero]Because guys are not deluged with people hitting on them, whereas girl ARE and you just get tired of it.

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I see where you are coming from and it makes sense, but the only way you are going to meet someone is if you made a move like you did with your ex or the guy make a move similar.

The name of the game is not playing hard to get. If you are not interested just let them know. I have seen my fair share of this where a guy would just get dismissed. A guy would through cheeseball line and girl say " I am not interested."

Girls are starting to stand up for themselves which this is why you feel this way. Times are changing and so arn't we...........
[QUOTE=eightball61]I see where you are coming from and it makes sense, but the only way you are going to meet someone is if you made a move like you did with your ex or the guy make a move similar.

The name of the game is not playing hard to get. If you are not interested just let them know. I have seen my fair share of this where a guy would just get dismissed. A guy would through cheeseball line and girl say " I am not interested."

Girls are starting to stand up for themselves which this is why you feel this way. Times are changing and so arn't we...........[/QUOTE]

I just like guys who are not ALL about hitting on girls. But i'm not in games at all and i'm not into dissing guys (although some just DESERVE a few choice words) I just don't wanna be gawked at, or hollered at, or whistled at etc.

Eightball, the thing is, guys sometimes don't realize how up-in-our-faces they are. They often appear out of nowhere (sometimes when its dark in a lonely area) with that "whats your name" crap and when you're not forthcoming they get all offended.

And when you say 'no thanks' or 'not interested' they STILL don't get the message and are basically following you home and you have to say something harsh, then you're considered a bytch. You just can't win.

Also, guys should pay a little attention. if you're on a train and you and a girl catch eyes and she smiles DON'T assume she likes you - she could just be polite. But, if she keeps catching your eye and smiling THEN maybe thats a reason to talk to her. But don't be too confrontational - don't get up in her face.

Instead, try asking something like "do you know what stop is next?' or ask for directions!! But, if she's short with you or doesn't elongate the conversation then leave it alone. If she IS interested she'll ask again where you need to get to and ask if you're new to the city/area or even say "i'm walking that way, i'll show you where it is'.

Its all about giving someone breathing room and not being all up in their face.





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