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I too agree w/RosaMay and susieq0726.

You wanted honest advise, your boyfriend may or may not be aware that he wants to date other girls but that is a sign when he says or when couples whether its the female or male say they need a break from the relationship.

Is it fair to you? Of course not. But when your told by your boyfriend "we need a break from the relationship" or "some space apart" It also doesn't mean that YOU have to sit home alone and sort out his head. This is a break for you to find out Who you are and what you want too.
Even if your boyfriend said there is no one else or he won't date anyone what about YOU? I hope he doesn't think your suspose to just sit around while he decides where Your relationship is going? It takes TWO to make a relationship. Don't let him hold all the cards, you can play too. :)

Did he say what "your" suspose to do while "he's taking a break"? Are you free to date too? Don't let him or anyone control what you can do with your life - that is the bottom line. YES, I know you love him and only want him - but he's sorting his little head out while your left dazed and confused wondering about him and why he's dumped this on you. Take the break to find out if this is the guy for you too, find out whatelse there is in life at your age, you got alot going for you even though you can't see it right now.

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[QUOTE=GirlHarley]I too agree w/RosaMay and susieq0726.

You wanted honest advise, your boyfriend may or may not be aware that he wants to date other girls but that is a sign when he says or when couples whether its the female or male say they need a break from the relationship.

Is it fair to you? Of course not. But when your told by your boyfriend "we need a break from the relationship" or "some space apart" It also doesn't mean that YOU have to sit home alone and sort out his head. This is a break for you to find out Who you are and what you want too.
Even if your boyfriend said there is no one else or he won't date anyone what about YOU? I hope he doesn't think your suspose to just sit around while he decides where Your relationship is going? It takes TWO to make a relationship. Don't let him hold all the cards, you can play too. :)

Did he say what "your" suspose to do while "he's taking a break"? Are you free to date too? Don't let him or anyone control what you can do with your life - that is the bottom line. YES, I know you love him and only want him - but he's sorting his little head out while your left dazed and confused wondering about him and why he's dumped this on you. Take the break to find out if this is the guy for you too, find out whatelse there is in life at your age, you got alot going for you even though you can't see it right now.

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Girlharley,

You hit it on the head! She can't let him control what she does and feels. I hate it when guys do this kinda crap to women. It's the old "I don't know if I want you, but I don't want you to see anyone else until I am sure". And I am sure that I don't want to see anyone else". Whatever,,, It also makes me mad when they do this to keep from "hurting" the girl instead of just being honest with them. By not being honest, it actually will hurt her more in the end. I think they do this so they don't come accross as the "bad guy".





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