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8ball seems to give everyone the benefit of the doubt which is a good thing.. BUT there are way too many red flags in this one... him not having sex or never had sex with his current girlfriend for over a year... yeah right... him avoiding her on the internet... come on his parents are not monitoring him now.. why is he still playing games... Oh and then theres him being forced by his parents to get a job at the tender age of 18- hmmm does he think that it's child labor???.. what is that all about... does he even go to school?
Maybe his parents "allowed" him to go see you to see whats up with the money issues and then he just saw it as an unexpected oppurtunity to get some sex on the side...sorry.. but the only reason a guy would say he is not getting any is because he is hopeing he can get it from you.
So his parents didnt want him to soil their family name ...I think the apple does not fall too far from the tree because it seems he is mimicking those thoughts... a rich life with a respectable girl with some "no one will know" action on the side.

Just had a thought... maybe he is lying about not having sex with his girlfriend because he is afraid it might get back to his parents who might have already forbid him to have sex until he is married... so he is scared they might cut the allowance he gets if they find out.... that is far fetched, but with him and those parents anything is possible :jester:
[QUOTE=soulster]8ball seems to give everyone the benefit of the doubt which is a good thing.. BUT there are way too many red flags in this one... him not having sex or never had sex with his current girlfriend for over a year... yeah right... him avoiding her on the internet... come on his parents are not monitoring him now.. why is he still playing games... Oh and then theres him being forced by his parents to get a job at the tender age of 18- hmmm does he think that it's child labor???.. what is that all about... does he even go to school?
Maybe his parents "allowed" him to go see you to see whats up with the money issues and then he just saw it as an unexpected oppurtunity to get some sex on the side...sorry.. but the only reason a guy would say he is not getting any is because he is hopeing he can get it from you.
So his parents didnt want him to soil their family name ...I think the apple does not fall too far from the tree because it seems he is mimicking those thoughts... a rich life with a respectable girl with some "no one will know" action on the side.

Just had a thought... maybe he is lying about not having sex with his girlfriend because he is afraid it might get back to his parents who might have already forbid him to have sex until he is married... so he is scared they might cut the allowance he gets if they find out.... that is far fetched, but with him and those parents anything is possible :jester:[/QUOTE]

Eightball my friend- you have always given great advice. But I agree here that you are bending over too much to give the benefit of the doubt.

You are one to always look for the good in people and situations. On this one you just have accept there is nothing good about this guy or what he did or is doing.

You are great!





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