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Hey everyone…..
I have a couple of things. I am currently fighting a long battle of being insecure. My relationship is wonderful right now and I think I am slowing improving and I don’t want to mess up im doing so well.

Currently my bf is about 6 hrs away for work (he does electrical) and last night was the first night in our entire relationship that he didn’t call to say good night. I tried to call him and I got voice mail which means his phone was off. He called this morning and said hi and he loves me and stuff and said that last night his battery was dead so he turned it off and this morning when he turned it on he had a bit of juice left so he called me.

I need help stop thinking that he either didn’t want me to call to he was too busy doing “something else” and didn’t want me to interrupt so he turned it off.

I worry a lot I know…for no reason it seems a lot of time. Last time I saw him I made him mad by something I said. And I said did that upset you and e said no and I said are u mad he said no. He lied to me which I don’t know if I should just pass up as him just being a guy and (not talking bout his feelings, which he isn’t a very emotional or feelings guy) or if I should be afraid he isn’t always telling the truth?

He has never lied before, never been unfaithful, always is affectionate, tells me how he feels about me and everything. Its just I put all this together and makes me worried.

Can someone help me curve my worries
he is gone for until saturday....he has been gone before in the relationship it is the nature of his job...its just will the cell being dead I hate that u know. I am keeping occupied I just feel scared sometimes. Im sure you know how I feel. I trust him I just cant explain the feeling caue i have been hurt before...although i know that my ex is not him and we are different. I am improving and i m trying really hard. The pattern thing u nailed right on the head. If he is busy he makes a point to call every night to say good night so i just worry when the cell is "dead" and he said he didnt bring any of his chargers
[QUOTE=Babyblueeyes21]he is gone for until saturday....he has been gone before in the relationship it is the nature of his job...its just will the cell being dead I hate that u know. I am keeping occupied I just feel scared sometimes. Im sure you know how I feel. I trust him I just cant explain the feeling caue i have been hurt before...although i know that my ex is not him and we are different. I am improving and i m trying really hard. The pattern thing u nailed right on the head. If he is busy he makes a point to call every night to say good night so i just worry when the cell is "dead" and he said he didnt bring any of his chargers[/QUOTE]


Saturday is right around the corner.....He will be home soon but for the next few days keep yourself busy. If the cell is dead I am sure he will find other ways. He is with you for a reason so please dont worry. We are here to help to...
[QUOTE=Babyblueeyes21]Hey everyone…..
I have a couple of things. I am currently fighting a long battle of being insecure. My relationship is wonderful right now and I think I am slowing improving and I don’t want to mess up im doing so well.

Currently my bf is about 6 hrs away for work (he does electrical) and last night was the first night in our entire relationship that he didn’t call to say good night. I tried to call him and I got voice mail which means his phone was off. He called this morning and said hi and he loves me and stuff and said that last night his battery was dead so he turned it off and this morning when he turned it on he had a bit of juice left so he called me.

I need help stop thinking that he either didn’t want me to call to he was too busy doing “something else” and didn’t want me to interrupt so he turned it off.

I worry a lot I know…for no reason it seems a lot of time. Last time I saw him I made him mad by something I said. And I said did that upset you and e said no and I said are u mad he said no. He lied to me which I don’t know if I should just pass up as him just being a guy and (not talking bout his feelings, which he isn’t a very emotional or feelings guy) or if I should be afraid he isn’t always telling the truth?

He has never lied before, never been unfaithful, always is affectionate, tells me how he feels about me and everything. Its just I put all this together and makes me worried.

Can someone help me curve my worries[/QUOTE]

Don't those worries just suck! I'm not gonna be a hypocrite and say blah, blah get over it because I have my own security issues. But try to think logically about the whole thing. Is it likely that his battery went,etc...





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