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I have been with boyfriend for three years, although we have broken up for almost a month, and i have been seeing that 25 year old guy...he still emails me, and calls me crying, a few times i went over to visit him, just to comfort him because he says he cries all the time, and feels sick, and wants nothing but to die, because he cant live without me..i feel horrible..but my love for him has just died inside me and im not going to force myself to get back with him although i think if i really tried things could be back to normal...

Reason for break up: he was overly possessive, didnt want me to go shopping with my friends, when i did go shopping he'd be mad but then would be even more mad if i wore anything but long pants and long sleeved shirts, because he didnt want other guys to look at me, when i wore a skirt, not a minie, just a plain skirt, he would call me a sl*t, if i smelled like smoke from my house cuz of my relatives smoking he would say i was smoking or doing drugs when i told him i didnt, when i came home from work and was too tired to do anything sexual he would accuse me of lieing and not being at work but cheating, whenever there was a family argument here at my house i would tell him about it and what i said in it and he'd get mad at me and tell me not to get involved when its my family and its the same roof we live in, or he would make it sound like it was my fault, he didnt like to bring me to the movies, he wouldnt take me out to eat, he doesnt have a job, and when i talk to him about getting one he gets mad, or when i talk about him going on to school he gets mad, i tried to get him to talk about his goals with me, but he wouldnt, he didnt like to go anywhere with me besides if he needed something, wouldnt shop with me when i went to the big mall 20 minutes away..........................................

the second year i went to a movie with my cousins boyfriend and his friends and one of them kissed me joking around, i didnt see it coming and it was just a peck, one of my boyfriends friends seen and told him..
REASON:because my own boyfriend never brought me anywhere so i lied and went with my cousin

I basically couldnt take anymore mental abuse...and left the relationship, ive found a new guy....but i still have my ex coming in and out of the picture, trying to get me back, he talks about how hes going to kill himself, and keep taking codene to make him relax, when he dont need it nor is it his to take.....

i told him i didnt understand why he even wanted me back after i ran around on him that second year, and hes like well that was all my fault...now hes wanting to take me EVERYWHERE, shopping, the state park, bring me to work get food, hes looking for a job, hes talking about taking pennsylvania college through the internet for computer programming...hes doing everything that is not him, and i dont want him to change himself for me.....but he says that it only take this kind of thing sometimes to make someone wake up and realize what they got when they dont have it anymore...


what should i do?

right now i am kind of ignoring him still...but he cries all the time, and its so depressing.......





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