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There hasn't really been an insecurity issue in the relationship. We've only been together for a little over 6 months. It all happened very fast. We've basically been very happy and from what I can remember, we've only had 2 or 3 small confrontations that were caused probably by miscommunication. It was not a case of me being insecure all the time, in fact, I think I'm a very secure person. It was just something about being excluded for 4 days of a really important time of his life. I felt left out. It is petty. I admited it was wrong and if only people could go back in time!
[QUOTE=reddoorblack]There hasn't really been an insecurity issue in the relationship. We've only been together for a little over 6 months. It all happened very fast. We've basically been very happy and from what I can remember, we've only had 2 or 3 small confrontations that were caused probably by miscommunication. It was not a case of me being insecure all the time, in fact, I think I'm a very secure person. It was just something about being excluded for 4 days of a really important time of his life. I felt left out. It is petty. I admited it was wrong and if only people could go back in time![/QUOTE]


What has your past relationships been like? cheating, lieing, ect.
It's possible the X was insecure or that he felt in some way I resented his being with his friends. This is complex. In my email to him this morning I sincerely apologized and asked if it wasn't true that everyone is entitled (for lack of a better term) to one screw-up in a relationship. What about forgiveness? I could perhaps understand this action he has taken if it had been a problem in the past but it hasn't. The only issue that has come up before, and not even that often, was communication. We have different personalities and he likes to talk things to death, I don't. And, we were completely happy a week ago. I really mean completely happy!





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