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My boyfriend and I broke up after a year and a half relationship. Everything was going good. We moved to Texas together and we were planning on getting married. Yes you might say it's pretty fast but the way I felt about him the first time we went out I knew he was someone I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. I'm a very shy person even with people I 've known for awhile I'm shy around but with him it felt right I could tell him anything and I was so comfortable around him. He started hanging around new people at his job and his old drug habit seems to be surfacing again. He told me that he didnt want to have to answer to me and he wanted to do what he wanted to do with me standing in his way. One of his friends called me and said that he broke up with me b/c he wanted me to find someone better then him. When I brought up our fight his friend said that he did that to make me hate him and want to go back home. Then I do my own reseach and I looked on his on line services and he has been talking to all these girls on the computer. Now I don't know if he meet any of them yet but I know most are from our area. When I asked him the truth behind why he broke it off he said he didnt want to talk about it anymore. He said he wanted to end it on good term that way we would still be able to be friends. How can I still be friends after all the broken promises and not even knowing the truth about why we broke up? I love him so much I can't even bring myself to hate him like I did with all my other ex boyfriends just to get over it and move on. But the main thing that bothers me is the fact that he doesnt care that I'm going home tomorrow. If he does care he is surely not showing it. Shouldn't I at least deserve the truth behind the break up? Not only did I lose the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with but I also lost my best friend.

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