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Well here's what I think: When someone cheats in a relationship and the other party agrees to take the cheater back, they better be prepared to forgive them - Completely. Cheating is a horrible thing to do someone, I agree, but if you let him back into your life, you cannot hold it against him and make him pay for it for the rest of his life. You will never forget about it, but you must forgive. I know,,,I have been through this before. I dated a man (long before I met and married my husband) that cheated on me. I agreed to take him back and could never forgive him for what he did. For three months I tortured him about it. I knew then, that I could not be with someone that cheated on me. The relationship was never the same, and I broke it off.
Anyway,,,enough about that.
I guess my point is this: Can and will you get over what he did? (some people can, I just wasn't one of them) Can you rebuild your relationship? Do you want to? These are all questions you need to ask yourself as no one else can provide you the answers.
If you feel your not getting out of the relationship what your putting into it, maybe you need to take a long look at it and go from there.





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