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Wanted to update my fellow posters who have been very caringly responding...

I spoke to my bf...he doesnt sound good. He was going to come over but he sounds like he is getting a bad cold so he cant come. I miss him :confused:
Anyways I said to him that I apologise that the situation made me insecure and jelous. He said that he is sorry that is did make me jelous he didnt intend that. Hes feels quite bad he cant come see me cause he promised but is feeling very sick so I sai dit was ok. He proceeded to say that I was the best and that He loves me very much. And I said (just to get that reassurance) as long as u arent cancelling to see another woman (with a bit of a joking way) then I will get over the fact that you cant come see me. He said that he would never do that to me. Its funny...cause sometimes I just need to hear that from him every once in a while to calm myself down...and Im calm and think how can I be so selfish as to make him feel as if I dont trust him. its a crazy cycle...lol

I am feeling a bit sick too as I told him and he said u dont deserve to be sick and I said neither do u...hes like ya...all sad sounding...cause I always let u down...I was like...geeze he is making me feel soo bad. (he is very good and the whole puppy dog thingy) Im thinking now how could a bf that has such a guilty conscince do anything to hurt me!!!

Im feeling much better guys!!!!! Thanks!

Now I think I will send him a get better E-CArd
[QUOTE=Babyblueeyes21]Wanted to update my fellow posters who have been very caringly responding...

I spoke to my bf...he doesnt sound good. He was going to come over but he sounds like he is getting a bad cold so he cant come. I miss him :confused:
Anyways I said to him that I apologise that the situation made me insecure and jelous. He said that he is sorry that is did make me jelous he didnt intend that. Hes feels quite bad he cant come see me cause he promised but is feeling very sick so I sai dit was ok. He proceeded to say that I was the best and that He loves me very much. And I said (just to get that reassurance) as long as u arent cancelling to see another woman (with a bit of a joking way) then I will get over the fact that you cant come see me. He said that he would never do that to me. Its funny...cause sometimes I just need to hear that from him every once in a while to calm myself down...and Im calm and think how can I be so selfish as to make him feel as if I dont trust him. its a crazy cycle...lol

I am feeling a bit sick too as I told him and he said u dont deserve to be sick and I said neither do u...hes like ya...all sad sounding...cause I always let u down...I was like...geeze he is making me feel soo bad. (he is very good and the whole puppy dog thingy) Im thinking now how could a bf that has such a guilty conscince do anything to hurt me!!!

Im feeling much better guys!!!!! Thanks!

Now I think I will send him a get better E-CArd[/QUOTE]


E-cards are always great. Well good to hear that is off your chest and you feel much better. Now, from this point since he know try to focus on you and how you can help yourself out. You know you problem and you have identified it but now you have to try to solve it. Try writing a journal of thoughts....it work for me ;) goodnight :wave:





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