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about 4 months about my bf and i we going good together and my supposedly best friend iis a guy and liked me tried pulling tricks to see us break up and its was a mess. well my bf found out i had kinda messed around with donnie my ex best friend and we got in a big fight and i desided that i was going to stop being donies friend because he was sneaky and caused a mess. Well nic my bf and i went through a hard time and we are still together.. over 5 months. Well recently i have been having dreams about donnie.. he just is in the corner or walks past me.. or i hear his name or voice in my dreams and i keep seeing him at school.. i think i need to talk to him but thing is i havnt is so long its ganna be hard.. i loved him like a friend and onlky a freind just a couple of times we did the friends with benefits thing... but i still miss him sorta.. and my bf is gone for a while so i can talk to him.. and i dont know.. i think i need to though to get him off my concious.. its really buggin me but i dont know what to say.. i dotn want to just say.. hey whats up outa the blue.. should i tell him about the dreams and explain more into detail why i did what i did.?

please help its really bothering me and dreams have been going on for about 2 weeks off and on. :confused:
i dont want to start up the friendship because when my bf got back from juvi he would think i was sneaking around with him and wouldnt trust me. i just wanna beable to be friendly and not see him and him see me and just turn heads i wish we could just talk now and then and be friendly.. say hi to him.. i dont want to start a friendship now because of my bf but maybe if him and i actually start talking maybe then we can work on a friendship again. I do miss his friendship and its just getting annoying that every where i turn there he is and his sister who is a freshman is now on the fresh basketball team and varsity and fresh practice together so i see her.. and she and i get along great. And its just.. i dont know.. im not deciding to talk to him just because my bf is gone. its somethign i wanted to do for a while but have just been scared. and also scared to tell my bf because he and donnie dont at all get along. Donnie came over to his house a while ago because nic wanted to fight him so donnie shows up with like 5 other people.. so they didnt fight. And his friends threatened nic. Nothing has happened though. so what do i talk about do i tell him about my dreams and how its hurting me... and i personaly believe our good friendship was ended in a bad way.. should i bring that up.? thanks
[QUOTE=Passion4BskBall]i dont want to start up the friendship because when my bf got back from juvi he would think i was sneaking around with him and wouldnt trust me. i just wanna beable to be friendly and not see him and him see me and just turn heads i wish we could just talk now and then and be friendly.. say hi to him.. i dont want to start a friendship now because of my bf but maybe if him and i actually start talking maybe then we can work on a friendship again. I do miss his friendship and its just getting annoying that every where i turn there he is and his sister who is a freshman is now on the fresh basketball team and varsity and fresh practice together so i see her.. and she and i get along great. And its just.. i dont know.. im not deciding to talk to him just because my bf is gone. its somethign i wanted to do for a while but have just been scared. and also scared to tell my bf because he and donnie dont at all get along. Donnie came over to his house a while ago because nic wanted to fight him so donnie shows up with like 5 other people.. so they didnt fight. And his friends threatened nic. Nothing has happened though. so what do i talk about do i tell him about my dreams and how its hurting me... and i personaly believe our good friendship was ended in a bad way.. should i bring that up.? thanks[/QUOTE]

Passion.....honey, you need to really think about this. If you really care about your BF who is away and know something like this may hurt him and you say you don't want to start another friendship with donnie....why even tell him about a dream???? Why even go there???? The red flags are flying you just need to see them. There is now the problem of your already asking him to talk....if he calls my suggestion would be to tell him you just wanna forget the past & get past the awkwardness in the halls & for the sake of your history as friends could we just have the courtesy of saying hello to one another for old times sake. I would strongly recommend that if he doesn't contact you just say hello when you see him....there is nothing wrong with that and after you do it a few times he'll probably say hello back.

Hope this helps out a little....Goody :wave:





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